Is there anything known as ," The process of unloving"? The question that has been triggering me in the recent past but the question somehow remains - unheard and unanswered.

This question has raised numerous duel between my heart and brain. I have tried hard enough to find out answers rather solutions but haven't succeeded yet . But what I conclude to is that there is no such thing called the process of unloving really . One can never unlove a person but maybe can let go ? But that again is a question. Life sends you people whom you love more than yourself on days and build your relationship with them of love, nurture, care and commitment. Ñot necessarily a conjugal relationship but any relationship for that matter . From meeting for the first time ,to noticing their little details to believing that they are your home, you own it all. And suddenly one day you are asked to "unlove" that human being. Does that really happen that easy? Can you really get up one morning and tag a person who was once your home a stranger , can you?My answer to this is a complete NO . I have believed rather my consciousness has instilled in me the fact that you can never unlove a person. Love is so powerful that it hides the wrong of a person. It forces you to believe that he or she is perfect for you although if not.

Love is the journey

Togetherness is a goal

Some make it to the end of the river while some hung in the middle but the process rather the journey is beautiful, absolutely incredible . In this process you love the sense,the touch ,the soul ,the body and everything about a person after which there is no question of unloving.

Yes not all of us will make it to the end of the river but we all enjoy the journey . Some hold hands a lifetime ,some hands shiver and leave . While some hands are scared to hold and the rest are fierce. But all of them own it their own way .

The hands that left one day with anger , biwilderment, fear can also never unlove but sometimes they choose separation to see the person they love , happy.

These people are like our favourite books which we don't read everyday but always take out when we need love and care. They are like the favourite poetry of the season,the favourite chapter of the most romantic story and the never dying love of our lives!

They come in our lives to teach us love and only love and as they leave they give us more strength to love them - secretly and passionately! 🌟

Deboleena