Love is a question of questions!
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Love is a question of questions!
The need for connection, communication and expression supersede the need for fitting gender roles of providing and maintaining through action in modern relationships. Or at least so I’d say; because ever since I’ve known, I myself have found nothing more fun than witty banter and wholesome conversation in a romantic relationship. I would call myself a Sapiosexual, only it’s more than that. For me, it’s not a question of whether someone is well versed in the matters of the world, it’s about whether their thoughts and feelings are original and whether they resonate with mine. It’s a question of finding oneself while exploring another and about finding vulnerability comfortable and at times liberating. And you know what’s sexier than someone who’s well read and can spurt copious facts?
Someone who has an opinion but knows theirs is not the only one that matters; Someone who’s honest about what they know and what they don’t know and who they are and who they are not. Someone who is well versed in the book of themselves and can read out excerpts from that, whether on impulse, or on demand.
Love is no more a question of pulling out a chair because ultimately kindness stems from wisdom and someone who knows that knows that real kindness is less ‘paper’ and more ‘instinct’.
Love is a question of questions.
Can someone out there ask the right question?
What questions? –
Questions you ask yourself and questions you ask the other.
Questions that exude, more than anything, a genuine interest in the other’s way of life.
Is there someone out there who wants to know something real about me? That’s the real deal.
Is there someone out there gently accepting of who i am although never ceasing to want to know more?
Is there someone out there wise enough to be humble, but whose wisdom entails a genuine deep dive into all things that matter.
Is there someone out there who’s going to want to venture beyond who I present myself as to the world and who I really know and believe myself to be?
Now that’s a good question for a first date.
Ananya Choudhury
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